Another rainy day! Let me see what is in my brain and comes to mind. Over the past couple years people have confused my nationality. I have gotten French most often. People have said I look French when I shave my head and when I have curly hair! Some people told me it is my clothing style, others say it is my "accent". I do not think I have an accent but I do believe I intonate my words in a unique way I guess. It is funny being an American in disguise. Others have noticed I am Jewish by my curly hair and start speaking to me in Hebrew, assuming I am Israeli. Once on the trip I even got Spanish! In Ko Tao right now it is about 35% people from the UK, 30% Israelis, and the remaining 25% is a mix between French, Spanish, German and Dutch. I met only one other American. It is sad Americans do not have the adventurous worldly spirit like the Europeans. I started writing my reflections of 2024 and my manifestations for 2025. I have done this the past two years and it has been cool going back and seeing the thoughts and ideas I would have. One thing huge comes to mind. 2025 will be the best year yet. Traveling has actually grounded me and solidified my perspectives and what I stand up for. The past two years I was very malleable, willing to learn and grow and try various experiences. I didn't really have things that I stood up for or solidified perspectives. I tried to be a sponge in everything I did. Now over the past three years of action packed experiences post college, I feel grounded and confident to sculpt my adult personality and draw red lines in the sand. Like I mentioned before, the age of 25 is where they say your pre frontal cortex becomes fully developed. I am really happy with how this trip has been shaping me and began to solidify my perspectives. This as I have mentioned, will make me a better brother, friend, son, husband, father. Going into the new year I have a vigor like never before. To continue to grow my intellectuality, my physicality, my emotionality, my spirituality. I think this perfectly coincides with when I will be solo traveling. Zach and I will split up in about a week and I will be alone for the rest of the travels. We have had an amazing 3.5 months together and I would not trade it for anything. That being said I am looking forward to the solo leg and seeing what it will bring. I will be traveling through north Thailand, Laos, Cambodia, Vietnam, the Philippines, and maybe more!
Koh Tao, Thailand
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Chase Fagen
Living Gambit